I was only born in 1996 so I imagine a lot of people would laugh at me if I said I miss some of the traditions and stuff from when I was a baby since I can’t remember it – however, I absolutely miss the tradition of video cameras and taking home videos for memories. There are so many videos from when I was a baby and a child celebrating Christmas day or on holidays with my family and I love watching them and seeing my family in the past and almost being transported back to that day and the little things that disappear from memory so easily like what the living room looked like on Christmas day, what music we had on in the background and little things like that. Since the rise of social media, home films and photo albums feel like they’re being replaced by just saving photos to Instagram or Facebook or videos will just be small clips from nights out and such taken on Snapchat.
Now I’m not going to turn into a social media criticizing old bat all of the sudden, don’t get me wrong – I think social media has been beneficial and I love using Instagram to keep an online platform of photos and see what my friends are up to, but I always worry about how I’m going to look back on these memories in the future or if something was to happen to my phone or account. I always try and backup all my online photos tons just so I never lose them and recently I have been trying to keep physical stuff as well that feels a bit more sentimental and personal. I thought I’d share with you all how I treasure my memories and positive situations that I go through as much as I can, in case it inspires others!
First of all, I have had some form of a memory jar or box since around 2014. In 2014, I had a little jar in my room and I’d always try to write down good memories even if they were small days with my family or just going to see a film and put the snippet of paper with the memory written on in the jar. The catch to that was at the end of the year, I sat down with it and went through everything and it gave me such a warm feeling of positivity and achievement seeing what the year had for me positively.
Now, I have a memory box sat in my room that’s possibly a little more disorganized but can hold a lot more in terms of photos, things I’ve picked up on days and snippets of paper. It’s actually a big Ted Baker box I recycled from a Birthday present (so it always has a little hint of Ted Baker Blush pink stuff when I open it!), and I have been keeping a bag full of stuff I’ve written down when I’ve tried to write down memories, it has programmes and tickets from shows I’ve been to, cards from birthdays, wristbands from nights out and other bits and bobs! You could make a memory jar or box out of anything really! I remember finding the idea originally on Pinterest!
Next, I’ve been trying to keep photo albums this year which I can fall behind on a bit since, for my bigger photo album, I now have to order prints of my phone photos so they’re a nice quality to put in there so I only have a couple of photos in there. I also have a smaller photo album that is a design my mum picked up in a charity shop I believe – you can tell it’s meant to be for a baby album or something but I think the design is so pretty! I keep my polaroid photos in here when I have chances to take polaroids! It’s really lovely flipping through it every so often to cheer myself up!
Another way I tried to creatively express happy times and such is last year I made a couple sketchbook pages during the summer holidays which I’m actually quite proud of! I wish I had the motivation to get back into it and maybe this summer I will! This way you can use as many tools to your liking and use tickets, postcards or leaflets as pieces in the page!
Lastly, I recently bought a gorgeous ‘memories journal’ from Paperchase and because I have signed up to student website UniDays, I got a discount on it so it was a lot cheaper than it appeared! It has a beautiful design on the front and inside there is a variety of pages including lined pages to write on, plain pages to stick stuff on possibly or draw and envelopes to tuck stuff into! I originally tried to put my polaroids in the envelope however, I had so many it ripped one of the envelopes in the corner already! It’s a gorgeous book for writing stuff down though and can easily fit in a bag to whip out if you remember or experience anything that makes you happy!
I hope these may have given some people inspiration! How do you keep memories and snippets of stuff that makes you happy?
Thanks for reading,